Whether you’ve been with your partner for years or weeks, feelings can change or raise flags. Here are five signs you’re in the wrong relationship…
Whether you’ve been with your current partner for a length of time, or you’re in a relatively new relationship, if you’re experiencing feelings of doubt, uncertainty or anxiety around your relationship then you could be in the wrong one. When couples first get-together, we tend to overlook flaws and initial problems. After all, you’re just getting used to each other and many of these things can be put down to nerves or even excitement. But after a time, if you’re still experiencing these little niggling feelings of uncertainty, you may want to take a closer look at your relationship.
Everyone experiences feelings of doubt now and again, but it’s important to recognise the difference between personal commitment issues or fears and an unhealthy relationship. So, what are the signs that indicate that you’re in the wrong relationship? Read on to find out more.
You’ve sought guidance
Did you know that many people, when they’re having relationship issues, reach out to psychics? Many psychics like the ones you’ll find here provide a wide range of services including relationship advice, as well as questions related to love and even break-ups. It’s not guaranteed that you’ll get the answers you’re looking for. However, if you’re looking for guidance and reassurance, then reaching out to a psychic could be beneficial.
You feel you need to defend your partner
When it comes to relationships, many people believe that it’s important that they’re approved by our friends and family. So if you find yourself defending your partners’ actions and attitude to your friends and family, either in the hope that they’ll approve or understand the situation better, then you’re probably in the wrong relationship. If you find yourself feeling increasingly isolated from your family and friends, either by your own doing or your partner making things difficult, then you need to take a step back and reevaluate who you’re with.
They criticise everything you do
When you’re at the receiving end of constant criticism or nit-picking – even if it’s seemingly in jest – if you find yourself constantly apologising, changing or even hiding your behaviours to avoid criticism then there is something wrong. If your self-esteem is constantly being attacked then it’s time to leave the relationship. A good partner would only ever boost your confidence, and not work to tear it down.
You’re always suspicious
You don’t mean to be, yet things your partner says and does leave you feeling suspicious and the ability to trust them is difficult. Perhaps they keep their phone on them all the time and flinch if you move near it. Or they say they’re going somewhere with friends and yet they refuse to provide details. If your partner makes you feel as though they’re hiding something or you end up questioning yourself over certain actions they take, then it might be time to take a break.
You no longer have your own space
Having your own personal space is important in any healthy relationship. Whether that’s personal hobbies or interests or just time to sit and relax. If your partner begrudges you time alone or to enjoy what makes you happy, then it might be time to move on.
These are some of the signs you’re in the wrong relationship. If you feel any of these it’s important to talk with your partner or someone close to you for advice.
